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Be the Hero to your Brain

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I sat in a room filled with professionals from the mental health community, asking them to share their thoughts about themselves. The responses were heartbreaking. Many expressed feelings of being unlovable, worthless, and never good enough. These beliefs, often rooted in traumatic experiences or negative messages from family members during childhood, had shaped their self-perception. For instance, a child abandoned by a parent might internalize feelings of worthlessness, which persist into adulthood and are reinforced by unhealthy relationships.

The point is that we all harbor certain cognitions about ourselves, often operating on autopilot. Sometimes these beliefs scream loudly in our minds; other times, they whisper. It is up to us to decide whether these beliefs will be positive or negative. Our mental framework, which controls so much of our lives, is profoundly influenced by these beliefs.

Research shows that a positive mindset can have lasting benefits, such as increasing lifespan, improving decision-making, and enhancing overall health. Imagine that simply smiling more could help you live into your late eighties – it’s true! Stress and negativity can weaken our immune system, making us more vulnerable to illnesses, from the common cold to serious infections. While a positive mindset is not a cure-all, it is a crucial factor in maintaining good health.

Positive thinking boosts levels of serotonin and dopamine in the brain, combating depression and reducing cravings associated with addiction and self-harm. When we envision a fulfilling and optimistic future, the power of our cravings diminishes over time.

While the excitement about the power of positive thinking is well-founded, we must also acknowledge that negative thinking can have equally strong effects. Negative beliefs and thoughts slow down cognitive function and impede our brain’s ability to operate effectively.

Here are five concrete ways to cultivate a positive mindset:

  1. Practice Gratitude: Take time each day to reflect on the things you’re grateful for. This can be as simple as keeping a gratitude journal where you jot down three things you’re thankful for each day. Research by Emmons and McCullough (2003) found that practicing gratitude can lead to greater happiness and improved overall well-being. For example, you might be grateful for a supportive friend, a beautiful sunset, or a delicious meal.
  2. Engage in Positive Self-Talk: Monitor your inner dialogue and replace negative thoughts with positive affirmations. Instead of saying, “I’ll never succeed,” tell yourself, “I am capable and resilient.” Research by Mosewich et al. (2013) suggests that positive self-talk can enhance performance and boost self-esteem. For instance, before a presentation, remind yourself of your strengths and past successes.
  3. Surround Yourself with Positive Influences: Seek out supportive relationships and environments that foster positivity. Spend time with friends who uplift and encourage you, and limit exposure to negative media or toxic individuals. Studies have shown that social support and positive relationships are linked to greater psychological well-being (Helliwell & Putnam, 2004).
  4. Practice Mindfulness and Meditation: Incorporate mindfulness techniques and meditation into your daily routine to promote mental clarity and emotional balance. Mindfulness practices help you stay present in the moment and cultivate a nonjudgmental awareness of your thoughts and feelings. Research by Hofmann et al. (2010) suggests that mindfulness-based interventions can reduce symptoms of anxiety and depression. For example, try a guided meditation app or attend a mindfulness workshop to learn relaxation techniques.
  5. Set Realistic Goals and Celebrate Progress: Break down your long-term goals into manageable steps and celebrate each milestone along the way. Setting achievable objectives boosts confidence and provides a sense of accomplishment. According to Locke and Latham (2002), setting specific and challenging goals enhances motivation and performance. For instance, if your goal is to run a marathon, start by training for a 5K race and gradually increase your distance.

By incorporating these practices into your daily life, you can cultivate a positive mindset and enhance your overall well-being.

So, be the hero to your brain. Choose positivity, cultivate optimism, and watch as your thoughts shape your reality. With each positive affirmation, you rewrite the narrative of your life, transforming setbacks into steppingstones and challenges into triumphs. I leave you with this question: What message will you tell yourself today? Would you share that message with a sibling or an innocent child? If you wouldn’t say it to someone else, why say it to yourself?

Choose one positive thought today, such as “I am strong,” “I am smart,” “I am loved,” or “I am worthy.” Repeat it to yourself in the morning, the afternoon, and the evening. Make this a habit and create new neural pathways. Remember, you are worthy of great things.

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